During our vacation in Pattaya, Thailand in 2005, i have an opportunity to have a picture taken with trained chimpanzees. They acted as if they are my own children. Both of them wanted my attention and seems to argued on who's going to sit on my lap, the small one wins.
Looking back with my own kids, i didn't realize that i started being a mother at an early age. I had to go through parenting issues as each child is different from one another. In a family, sibling rivalry cannot be avoided as each child has its own personality. Young as i was before, my mother guided me on what and what not to do. In raising my children, i sometimes make decisions and actions that is either a success or a failure. But as the time pass by, i learned the art of parenting which is always a shared responsibility.
To deter sibling rivalry, here are some important D & B points:
1. Do not play favorites
2. Do not compare the children
3. Do not typecast
4. Be observative
5. Be cooperative
6. Be fair
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